The Dating Truth

What messages are you sending and believing about dating?

Whatever they are, I hate to tell you, they’re probably flawed.

We can’t control our thoughts. We can only control which thoughts we hold on to and which we let go of. Unfortunately, sometimes we don’t create the thoughts we let enter our minds. We hear messages or see images and create conclusions.

Because we have made these associations we think that they are true beliefs and convictions

When we see beautiful women with great looking men we think, ‘You need to be beautiful to have a man like that’. … CONTINUE READING…

Making a man feel bad should be the least of your concerns.

Women over time have been conditioned to think of others feelings. This isn’t a bad thing. When it comes to the highroad, it’s completely littered with women. It’s the parkway that you take because you’re not sure where the other roads will take you.

In my experience I have mad decisions based on not wanting others to feel bad despite feeling pretty lousy myself. I learned the hard way that in very few instances do both parties end up unhappy. Someone always gets what they want and if … CONTINUE READING…

“Strangers are friends you have yet to meet”

It isn’t too often that I get a chance to really practice what I preach. I consider myself so Jillian Michaels.

Yes, I used to have trouble dating and I know what it takes to be successful but I don’t feel it necessary to do all the menial tasks a beginner would have to do to support my success.

I did meet a guy however and it got me thinking about how many women this happens to. You meet a guy that you like… what happens next is a combination of faith, … CONTINUE READING…

If you want to test your memory, try to recall what you were worrying about one year ago today.  ~E. Joseph Cossman

Everyone knows that confidence is the sexiest quality any man or woman can possess. When you are confident, you stand out. You’re body language is strong, your eye contact is positive, you’re energy is up and you just radiate.

It’s a wonder why everyone isn’t confident knowing how awesome it makes you look to the opposite sex. It’s said that people build confidence when they feel comfortable doing things they have done before.

Let’s say you’re driving home … CONTINUE READING…

We sometimes encounter people, even perfect strangers, who begin to interest us at first sight, somehow suddenly, all at once, before a word has been spoken.

~ Fydor Dostoevsky

When you’re single the world can’t wait to assign a reason and point the finger. Most people are single not because they want to be but because they just aren’t satisfied with their current options.

Call it picky but I completely understand.

You don’t want to be with the wrong person just because you want a relationship. Plus, there are so many people in relationships who are unhappy that taking the … CONTINUE READING…