The Dating Truth

There are two concepts in dating that women tend to adopt that I think suck, dating like a man and thinking like a man. Long ago, someone was watching ‘Sex and the City’ and a light bulb went off in their mind, when Samantha suggested women should ‘date like a man’.

It was only a few years ago that Steve Harvey suggested that women, ‘Think Like A Man…’ False.

I’m a woman and darn proud of it. I know don’t think that men have any better luck in dating than women do. There is an illusion that the men … CONTINUE READING…

I make resolutions every year.

While some people think change should occur all year-long or it’s useless to make a promise to yourself, most people can’t keep, I look at resolutions as my longest term goals for self-improvement. I tend to use my resolutions for the New Year to aid in my personal growth.

Throughout the year I set goals for my career, my finances, things I want to buy or accumulate in life but New Years is the time I set goals for who I want to be as a person.

Ask yourself now, what kind of partner do you

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What messages are you sending and believing about dating?

Whatever they are, I hate to tell you, they’re probably flawed.

We can’t control our thoughts. We can only control which thoughts we hold on to and which we let go of. Unfortunately, sometimes we don’t create the thoughts we let enter our minds. We hear messages or see images and create conclusions.

Because we have made these associations we think that they are true beliefs and convictions

When we see beautiful women with great looking men we think, ‘You need to be beautiful to have a man like that’. … CONTINUE READING…

Do you know a beautiful, intelligent, kind-hearted woman who just can’t seem to find a good man?

Forget that, a great man? Maybe you are that person.

So what I’m about to share with you is a foolproof way to get a man. Now I don’t want to give off the impression that I don’t champion for singles. Because I do. I think being single is awesome. I’m not sure why anyone would willingly leave their single life behind.

It has come to my attention however, that many women haven’t mastered the single and loving it lifestyle. There are many … CONTINUE READING…

Have you ever missed an opportunity to talk to a potential date because you just didn’t know what to say?

Have you ever started a conversation then realized there was nothing left to talk about but damn it, you haven’t gotten their number yet?

These two scenarios are very common. Overcoming conversation hurdles are an important part of dating success. If you can’t have an interesting conversation with someone, one that leads to a date, you’re failing.

Conversations are the foundation of all good relationships. If you run out of topics within the first ten minutes of chitchat, why would … CONTINUE READING…