The Dating Truth

There is nothing safe about sex. There never will be.
Norman Mailer

Over a few months of summer last year, I set out to find the answer to a simple question: How do you get a man to have casual sex with you, on a regular basis?

Real casual. Like don’t call me unless you have an hour to spare and condoms, casual.

The many men that I asked laughed; claiming it was easy for women to have sex with anyone, just ask. All a woman had to do was ask a man or tell him really, that she only … CONTINUE READING…

Can men and women ever just be friends ‘with benefits’?

In the new Natalie Portman, Ashton Kutcher comedy (I’m assuming its supposed to be funny) “No Strings Attached” this is the exact question they plan to answer. For the sake of women’s brains not exploding, I’m pretty sure we find out that the answer is no, that the man inevitably falls madly in love with you and you live happily ever after on his finance, consultant, lawyer, pretentious job salary but I haven’t seen the movie so I could be wrong.

I’m quite the fan of ‘benefits’. I’m … CONTINUE READING…

I don’t have a lot of sex. Never has it ever been a dilemma in my life whether or not to have sex on the first date. In my mind, if you have sex with a stranger the very first time that you go out, it’s likely to be your last date. Of course there are exceptions to the rule and we all have that one girl’s cousins, sister’s, neighbors, uncles, and nanny’s best friend who had sex on the first date and ended up happily married. Exceptions to the rule exist but be real, they don’t apply to most … CONTINUE READING…