The Dating Truth

God made woman beautiful and foolish; beautiful, that man might love her; and foolish, that she might love him. ~ Unknown

What do men want?

They have been trying to tell you this whole time.

For you to shut the f*ck up

For you to initiate sex

For you to never talk about another man

To hear you say ‘thank you’

Your support

For you to feel secure

For you to laugh at their jokes

For you to end the phone call first

For you to look just as cute to come over and watch a movie as you did … CONTINUE READING…

It f*cking sucks.

No! I’m kidding. I really am.

Being single is a little like the first two-weeks in what you thought would be your dream job. At first you feel anxious, then excited finally so over it. Overwhelmed with questions that you’ll never find the answers to.

“Was this a mistake?”

“What if things don’t get better?”

“Am I truly happier?”

“Am I going to have to get a new job again?”

Similar to how you might feel getting into a new relationship, except the possibility exists that you will be single, again.

When you are single the chances … CONTINUE READING…

Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.
William Arthur Ward

“Thank you so much.”

I don’t know the last time you said those words on a date but it could be the reason you’re not still seeing that guy. It may seem trivial but a grateful woman is as sexy as any beautiful woman could ever be.

Trying to compete with looks and bedroom skills may work for some but if you really want to separate yourself from all the other pretty girls this man may have dated, these words could save … CONTINUE READING…

Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition – Timothy Leary

When was the last time you paid for a date?

This week I was reading one of my favorite dating advice blogs, www.evanmarckatz.com. He listed an interesting mix of articles and websites that had caught his attention, the #2 most visited being a link to poll results done by LearnVest about who should pick up the check on a date.

Ultimately the popular answer was the man or (in the case of same-sex relationships) whoever asks.

My reaction was, “Are we still talking about this?” If … CONTINUE READING…

Have you ever asked yourself, “Do they like me?” or “Will I see them again?” after a first date?

Assuming that you were slightly interested in the romantic possibilities with this person when you planned the date, afterwards you might have many questions running through your mind. Doubts really; about how they felt about you and the date overall.

These feelings are completely naturally but absolutely detrimental to first date success. What single men and women don’t seem to know or realize is: The point of a first date is to get a second date.

Matchmaker, author and relationship … CONTINUE READING…