The Dating Truth

When people tell me dating is easy for me, referring to my looks, I always laugh and say it’s even harder because I’ve dated everybody.

I feel like I have dated everyone. From athletes, lawyers, doctors, salesmen, unemployed, engineers, Americans, Russians, Africans and the list goes on.

I’ve never found it difficult to get a date but what I’ve found over the years that I’ve been writing about dating, is that most people don’t care about the date.

For most people, the destination is far more important than the journey and they would rather get to paradise and have a lousy time than to be

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Have you ever met a man who you thought was perfect?

Not only good-looking but also charming, smart, kind and giving? Sometimes we meet men that are, in our minds, who we have waited for and instead of embracing the moment we get scared and nervous.

Although this is the man of your dreams you wonder if you are the woman of his? It isn’t always easy to keep your cool but here are a few tips to get and keep him interested in dating you.

1. Let him approach you. Not to sound old-fashioned and Lord knows that I have

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I believe in the goodness of people. I know dating is complicated and nothing is more frustrating than feelings. We don’t want to admit to ourselves that we care about potential dates because it means that they might eventually hurt us.

It’s typical to pretend, in fact, that we don’t care until its safe to express those feelings. Hopefully you’re learning that being happy with yourself allows you to care about someone else in a way that isn’t self –preserving.

When you truly care for people you want the best for them emotionally, physically and mentally. You want them to … CONTINUE READING…

“Remember those walls I built, well baby they’re tumblin’ down- they didn’t even put a fight, they didn’t even make a sound”

I used to feel very unlovable. Not really sure why because I’ve always had a lot of love in my life. I have a great family, never felt abandoned and I never was abused but in relationships I just always did the most.

I did above and beyond what any attractive self-assured woman should do (a little on my doormat steez) and I never could put my hand on the real reason. Since then I’ve learned my lesson … CONTINUE READING…

There is nothing safe about sex. There never will be.
Norman Mailer

Over a few months of summer last year, I set out to find the answer to a simple question: How do you get a man to have casual sex with you, on a regular basis?

Real casual. Like don’t call me unless you have an hour to spare and condoms, casual.

The many men that I asked laughed; claiming it was easy for women to have sex with anyone, just ask. All a woman had to do was ask a man or tell him really, that she only … CONTINUE READING…