The Dating Truth

In dating it’s almost impossible to truly feel your self-worth.

Often times when we see potential dates we instantly believe that we have to earn their affection. Even if you start the courtship open and ambivalent, the moment you begin to develop feelings for potential dates is when the fear sets in.

You start to worry:

What if they don’t like me?

What if they’re not attracted to me?

What if they choose someone else over me?

What if they don’t like me as much as I like them?

Its easy in dating to become absorbed with being “liked” before … CONTINUE READING…

Is there a sure way to get what you want? I’ve read numerous books on the power of attraction and metaphysics that say yes, there is. Yet so many people still accept lack in their lives.

So what is holding you back? If the answers are there and the secret is out, why aren’t more people employing these techniques to get what they want?

The easy response: fear.

One combatant to fear is strategy. Even if you don’t know if you can do it, it’s better to plan out what to do. So up until now, what has been your … CONTINUE READING…

I have no doubt in my mind that if more singles knew what they wanted from their love life they would get it. Being clear about what you want, your dating goals and your ideal for love in the future is wonderful but it’s just the start.

It’s not enough to just state what you want:

I want a boyfriend/girlfriend, I want a meaningful relationship, I want to get married and have children someday.

You must first accept that what you want is a real goal, and very attainable. You must also accept that sometimes we don’t get what we … CONTINUE READING…

I find that many single men and women, feel like they don’t get what they want.

You might find yourself asking,

“Why can’t I find someone who treats me better?”

“Why do I always get rejected?”

“Why don’t potential dates pursue me?”

“Why aren’t I meeting more people and going on more dates?”

“How come I always attract losers?”

There’s no shame with wanting more out of your love life and life in general than what you already have. You should always be grateful but there comes a point when you know you deserve better but you aren’t sure how … CONTINUE READING…

Most single people fear coming across as desperate. Although its possible for someone to mistake your kindness or flirtation as romantic interest, it’s usually the people who feel desperate that fear coming across that way.

But what if you want a relationship really, really, badly?

It’s perfectly normal to want a relationship. What you have to ask yourself is why you want a relationship with:

a) someone you don’t really know

b) someone who you don’t really like or

c) someone who is less that you want.

Why, because we all want to feel validated and accepted.

When someone commits … CONTINUE READING…