There isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t want to be beautiful.

The best ways to feel like you’re seen, not only as a woman but as an attractive woman, is to embrace your sexuality.

You don’t have to have sex with anyone to embrace what makes you sexy but you have to make it an intention. You have to focus on your internal fire. There’s something inside of you that can lure a man to you that requires no chasing what so ever.

Your job as a woman is to find that spark and ignite it.

First, stop worrying about … CONTINUE READING...

I dated a guy once who said any woman who called herself a Princess was a deal-breaker.

Secretly my heart sank.

I’d never actually used the term to describe myself but who doesn’t want to be treated like a Princess because you can’t be a Queen without starting somewhere right?

Fairytales and the powerhouse that is the Disney brand contributed several ideals to my childhood one being: women are worth near death experiences. And if someone loves you they’ll do pretty much anything for you. Not just anything but whatever it takes to be with you.

Not once has … CONTINUE READING...

Without a healthy self-esteem in dating, you’re screwed.

I could give you all the advice in the world but the moment you met someone who made your heart skip you’d throw the rules right out of the window.

The truth is, what people see is what people believe so despite how you feel about yourself on the inside unless your actions reflect those feelings you’ll never get your point across.

How you act is who you are. No matter what stories you spin, actions definitely speak louder than words in dating.

If you want to take back control in your

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No one likes to waste their time.

Our time is valuable and should never be abused by others who want our company but little else.

In dating it can seem like a ‘you versus them’ atmosphere. It’s surprisingly difficult to find potential dates that are on the same page as you are, and who want what you want. It can be incredibly confusing when you meet someone who you have chemistry with and spend time with but they send you mixed signals about whether they’re really interested.

How many times have you felt like you were dating someone who had … CONTINUE READING...

Very few people are good daters.

When I was in my 20s and averaging about 3 dates a week, I spent most of the time choosing bars, restaurants, or a movie.  Even though I was going out with different men, I found myself engaging in the same activities.

Most people who date, either frequently or once a year, experience something very similar.

We hate going on dates because they all seem the same.

Before we’re even asked on a date or considering making plans with potential partners we’ve already envisioned sitting across from each other at a cute, swanky- slash-hip, … CONTINUE READING...

In dating it’s almost impossible to truly feel your self-worth.

Often times when we see potential dates we instantly believe that we have to earn their affection. Even if you start the courtship open and ambivalent, the moment you begin to develop feelings for potential dates is when the fear sets in.

You start to worry:

What if they don’t like me?

What if they’re not attracted to me?

What if they choose someone else over me?

What if they don’t like me as much as I like them?

Its easy in dating to become absorbed with being “liked” before … CONTINUE READING...

Is there a sure way to get what you want? I’ve read numerous books on the power of attraction and metaphysics that say yes, there is. Yet so many people still accept lack in their lives.

So what is holding you back? If the answers are there and the secret is out, why aren’t more people employing these techniques to get what they want?

The easy response: fear.

One combatant to fear is strategy. Even if you don’t know if you can do it, it’s better to plan out what to do. So up until now, what has been your … CONTINUE READING...

I have no doubt in my mind that if more singles knew what they wanted from their love life they would get it. Being clear about what you want, your dating goals and your ideal for love in the future is wonderful but it’s just the start.

It’s not enough to just state what you want:

I want a boyfriend/girlfriend, I want a meaningful relationship, I want to get married and have children someday.

You must first accept that what you want is a real goal, and very attainable. You must also accept that sometimes we don’t get what we … CONTINUE READING...

I find that many single men and women, feel like they don’t get what they want.

You might find yourself asking,

“Why can’t I find someone who treats me better?”

“Why do I always get rejected?”

“Why don’t potential dates pursue me?”

“Why aren’t I meeting more people and going on more dates?”

“How come I always attract losers?”

There’s no shame with wanting more out of your love life and life in general than what you already have. You should always be grateful but there comes a point when you know you deserve better but you aren’t sure how … CONTINUE READING...

Most single people fear coming across as desperate. Although its possible for someone to mistake your kindness or flirtation as romantic interest, it’s usually the people who feel desperate that fear coming across that way.

But what if you want a relationship really, really, badly?

It’s perfectly normal to want a relationship. What you have to ask yourself is why you want a relationship with:

a) someone you don’t really know

b) someone who you don’t really like or

c) someone who is less that you want.

Why, because we all want to feel validated and accepted.

When someone commits … CONTINUE READING...