The Dating Truth

Trying to prove that you’re good enough for by anyone else’s standards but your own is a BIG waste of your time.

I haven’t lived your childhood or your experiences but we’ve all been through times when we tried to prove ourselves. Whatever the reasons we didn’t feel like we were “enough” at the time so we jumped through hoops and did the most when all we needed to do was believe in ourselves.

At some point in your life, you were led to believe that you weren’t good enough and you’ve been desperately trying to change to worlds’ mind … CONTINUE READING…

Your love life is a reflection of your personal perception.

I needed to reiterate the title because it means so much to me that you really know that.

If your dating life sucks its because you think that you suck. Regardless of how people brag that they’re amazing and deserving, inside they feel unworthy of the love that they truly want.

If you want your love life to match your perception of you and realize into what you believe you truly deserve, you have to get real about how you feel about who you are.

Who are you? Who do … CONTINUE READING…

I think we underestimate how hard we try for others.

Its time to quit working for someone else’s love and start working for your own love.

In 2000 I received my first journal as a gift. I had never used a journal before but I surely had a lot to say. I talked a lot and still do; writing helped me to clear my mind of random thoughts and express the emotions I could never share out loud.

In my first journal and everyone since 2000, I wrote about love. I wanted love and I wanted to be loved and … CONTINUE READING…

I’m not perfect. I know that isn’t news but I sometimes I like to state it, so others know that I know I’m not perfect. I don’t pretend to be perfect or flawless, well at least not anymore.

I talk too much. I’m stubborn and argumentative. I’m always telling people what to do, just to name a few flaws. I am far from perfect.

Over the years I’ve learned that my imperfections don’t harm my dating life. Many singles are afraid to let other’s see their imperfections but I’ve learned that what you think is wrong with you is hardly … CONTINUE READING…

Dating has nothing to do with looks.

I hate to break it to you because all this time you’ve been blaming your poor dating fortune on the crappy cards you’ve been dealt in the looks department but they don’t matter.Don’t give me the old, well it’s easy for an attractive person to say that looks don’t matter. But it’s the truth.

When it comes to dating looks don’t matter as much as you think they do. What matters is perception. How your looks are perceived is more important than how great looking you are.

What matters more than anything is

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