How To Choose The Right Online Dating Site

Choosing the right online dating site is almost as difficult as choosing your actual partner.

Online dating might be the solution to you if your schedule just doesn’t allow for you to meet enough option offline. Maybe you’ve considered online dating but you’re probably wondering if it really works. Of course it does.

This is probably a question you’ve asked yourself as you contemplated updating your Zoosk profile. I know what you’re really thinking is, “Will online dating work for me?” The answer is probably.

In this post, I’ll walk you through a step-by-step process to choosing the perfect dating site.

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10 Ways To Use Your Mobile Phone For Finding Your Spiritual Path And Love

As you sigh and think to yourself that you should just forget about ever finding a normal partner, think again.

In fact, with the help of a regular smartphone you might be much closer to true love than you could imagine. Just as you use the phone for finding information online about other things like best buys, you can use it to figure out exactly what you should do to meet the right person for you. Ignore dating services and instead look at yourself to learn more about who you are and how you can make a relationship work out for you. Here are 10 ways to use your mobile phone for finding your spiritual path and love…

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When you meet someone online the first date can make or break the relationship.

A great first date is critical. In simpler times you could go to a movie and save the conversation for date number two. Nowadays everything about the date is scrutinized from what you wear, where you dine, to what you do and say. More and more singles find themselves being judged and judging others not by our company but by the date itself.

As an innovative way to promote connection, a new online dating site,, is trying to emphasize the experience of the first date and not all the pressure.

Instead of meeting for coffee, which can seem like an interview or committing two hours of your time to an overpriced dinner. allows members to suggest creative and carefully planned dates before they choose a match. Their refreshing process allows users to attract interest from other members that have a shared vision of a good time.

So what type of dates should you plan to make your profile attractive and interesting to others?

The Creative Date– Enjoy a paint night. Fire up your inner Picasso and enjoy an art inspired affordable date. For less than a four star meal you and your date can paint, sip wine and leave with a souvenir.

Baseball Game (with Fireworks) America’s favorite pass time is also a great date idea. Popcorn, beer and the price of tickets equal a casual and relaxing night under the stars. Add a firework display (check the game schedule) and leave the sparks to the professionals.

Hike, Bike and Pack A Picnic– Show your adventurous side by taking a walk, bike or hike in your city. Find a beautiful view, plan a trail and pack a picnic. Become your date’s personal tour guide while learning more about the city together. Pack a small lunch and your favorite bottle of wine and create a unique experience.pyaar story

Adding an offline component that encourages members to meet, by proposing date ideas, is a huge benefit to members. Instead of complicated algorithms and endless questionnaires, keeps profiles basic.

Create a quick profile, propose a few dates, attract interest, and you’re on your way!

You won’t need to rack your brain for a date idea the day of the date. When online sites allow members to propose date ideas, perspective matches can choose the dates they would enjoy with the people they would enjoy them with. By planning ahead of time you can craft a first date idea to express your individuality, personality, creativity and interests.

Pyaar Story is offline-focused dating site for contemporary, young professional Indian-Americans in their 20s and 30s. Sign up for a free trial today.

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A few years ago, I was quoted as saying online dating isn’t for black people.

It’s 2016 and although I like the app, unfortunately, Tinder did not prove me wrong.

As a dating expert, and somewhat attractive woman, I’ve seen the evolution of the dating app for single straight people. Before trying it, I had been hearing about the app Tinder for quite sometime.

Like the lackluster “Grindr for straight people”, app before it Blendr, I expected Tinder to go the way of the Dodo before I ever made my way to the apps store for download.

To my surprise, as time went on, and more people began to utilize its functions I became curious about its effectiveness. I gave it a try and I’ve come to like it.

In the last eight years of my adulthood, I have had no problems meeting attractive, employed, and single men in person. In fact, as a dating expert a lot of my advice teaches how to do just that.

There’s a certain amount of charm that a woman just can’t convey through a picture.

So ideally if a single woman, such as myself wanted to meet a nice man, the streets are the place to go.

In the age we live in today, if it’s easier and we can be lazy then that’s the option most people take. Why actually get dressed and go to a bar when you have Tinder?

Why bother to send a woman a drink or use a witty pickup line, when you have Tinder?

It’s always been my belief that communicating online only perpetuates our fears of rejection and enables are insecurities of talking to strangers.

That being said, if Tinder was going to be as good as Grindr, I needed to see for myself.

Now as any person with a gay friend knows, Grindr is used for sex. (most of the time). If its bastard cousin Tinder were going to make it in the straight world, it would have to offer one thing: hot pictures of hot guys

At least that’s what I was expecting but this is what I found:

  • It’s either really good or really bad depending on your city.

  • Tinder is not for black people

  • I live in one of the whitest cities in America

  • No one should own that many Polo shirts

  • Men have no idea what women find sexy

  • I’m not ashamed to admit Tinder is complicated

  • I secretly enjoy the NOPE that flashes across rejected matches.

  • Some of the guys on Tinder, I know for a fact have girlfriends

  • I’m pretty cute

  • I would rather meet men in person because who you gonna believe an app, or your own eyes?

I’m not going to lie, as of the *original publication of this article, I’ve only been on Tinder for a total of 48 hours and by all accounts, mostly other people’s opinions, it’s a really cool app that might encourage singles to go on actual dates.

It can also prevent you from the possible catfish. But some reports are saying it’s an app used primarily for sex, and if that’s the case it’s no Grindr.

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