The Dating Truth

Just because you are a prize doesn’t make dating a game.

Vocabulary limits our understanding sometimes. There may be points in time where I refer to dating as a game. I have been known to encourage singles to create their own “rules”.

But really what I mean is don’t let society tell you what you have to do to find and maintain healthy love. Dating isn’t a traditional game.

Being in a relationship isn’t a standard prize, especially if it’s with someone who doesn’t make you better.

The only reason I want you to take a moment and stop looking at … CONTINUE READING…

I don’t know Kim Kardashian personally, although she would like me to.

Between her television show, TV appearances, magazine interviews and other forms of self-promotion, her blog and twitter, Kim wants us all to know her very well. She almost wants to date us. Showing us just enough of herself for us to be impressed but she’s furiously denying any negative traits perceived along the way.

If you think of Kim as a money-hungry, attention whoring, jersey chaser with marriage on the brain, you’re wrong. Despite what evidence you may have to support it, Kim is down to earth like … CONTINUE READING…

Some people you date, no matter how much you like them will piss you off.

In fact, its likely the more that you like them, the more they will frustrate you. When it comes to the relationships they’re often times explained and not described.

Relationships come with a lot of explanations. In fact just about every action and reaction comes with a reason. The person you’re dating either is or isn’t who you thought they were.

If they are, great! If they aren’t you have to choose to see them as who they are or makeup excuses for who they … CONTINUE READING…

Have you ever met a man who you thought was perfect?

Not only good-looking but also charming, smart, kind and giving? Sometimes we meet men that are, in our minds, who we have waited for and instead of embracing the moment we get scared and nervous.

Although this is the man of your dreams you wonder if you are the woman of his? It isn’t always easy to keep your cool but here are a few tips to get and keep him interested in dating you.

1. Let him approach you. Not to sound old-fashioned and Lord knows that I have

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My very good friend has been dealing with a man who will readily admit to everyone that he wants to be with her but can’t stop acting the damn fool.

I remember a time in dating when it was a shock to find out a man was an asshole. You were surprised.

Nowadays it seems many men have decided for the sake of not wanting to play games to be assholes right from the jump.

This is the true story of what happens when men stop being polite and start being real.

The old joke of “you don’t date people … CONTINUE READING…