The Dating Truth

I want to dispel the idea that everyone wants to be great.

Greatness is not a desire of all. I was reminded of this while watching the latest Victoria’s Secret fashion show.

While some people may watch the show in awe and wonder. I watch it, take notes and rationalize I’m one great diet plan away from looking like Adriana Lima.

I think she’s beautiful and I want to be beautiful but most folks aren’t like me.

If you read this blog thinking that you could be a better person then I applaud you. I want you to be better. … CONTINUE READING…

You always hear that confidence is the key to love, success and gets you just about everything you could ever want in life.

Confidence is like knowledge, the more you have the better suited you are in any situation.

You’re flexible, you’re assured and you feel prepared for any scenario.

Despite its importance, having confidence still seems to elude many people. Most of us are confident at different times in different ways. Unfortunately, in dating, many of us aren’t confident in the areas we need to be.

You have to know that potential dates want you. You have to know … CONTINUE READING…

Are you frustrated with dating?

I spend most of my time absorbed in information about dating, love, sex and relationships. Amongst the emails that I receive and the many singles that reach out to me via Twitter, YouTube, and my blog it’s evident that most women are frustrated.

If you were interested in any other topic be it health, medicine or finance seeking knowledge would be normal, and rational. Somehow, when it comes to love we are ashamed when we don’t know. We don’t want to admit that we don’t know.

The biggest mistake women make in dating is failing … CONTINUE READING…

Have you ever missed an opportunity to talk to a potential date because you just didn’t know what to say?

Have you ever started a conversation then realized there was nothing left to talk about but damn it, you haven’t gotten their number yet?

These two scenarios are very common. Overcoming conversation hurdles are an important part of dating success. If you can’t have an interesting conversation with someone, one that leads to a date, you’re failing.

Conversations are the foundation of all good relationships. If you run out of topics within the first ten minutes of chitchat, why would … CONTINUE READING…

How would you like to meet a potential date everyday?

Sometimes dating is depressing because you really just want one person that you think is awesome and vice versa. How many dates wouldn’t most singles trade just to have one person who could make them feel “special”?

I already know the answer, all of them. No matter how much any of us enjoys our single lifestyle, we have a need and desire to express love and be loved.

Unfortunately getting to the “one” sometimes requires going through the sea of plenty of fish and a couple of frogs.

There is … CONTINUE READING…