The Dating Truth

Before I had a smart phone I had an extensive argument with a guy over how to use the word pant. Sound stupid? Yeah, it was and so was he.

Nowadays I would’ve searched Google, but I didn’t have that convenience at the time. Arguing is a waste. I want you to stop doing it RIGHT NOW!

Ask yourself, why do I need to be right?

Don’t get it twisted, you’re more than welcomed to debate but do you know the difference between first and second-degree murder? Intent. Do you know what can make a crime a hate crime? Mindset.… CONTINUE READING…

There is nothing in the world that I could compare to the wonderfulness of being single.

You can have anyone, you can date anyone, everyone wants to date you and there is nothing but fun to be had and cute outfits to wear.

If I didn’t describe your current single experience, I hate to break it to you but you’re doing something wrong. When I say that being single isn’t easy, I mean it. To be fair, law school isn’t easy but I know plenty of lawyers who had the time of their life despite the hard work they had … CONTINUE READING…

I love New Year’s resolutions. I think there is something so symbolic about ends and beginnings and I love to start anew when everyone in the world is starting with you. When you face the end of a year single it’s typical to look back at the year and think of the good and the bad of what was your dating life. At the end of 2007 I broke up with my gay ex-boyfriend and I vowed as many do, to improve my love life for the better. I actually achieved my goal. I never spent another New Years pining … CONTINUE READING…

I recently met a man whose number I didn’t get. Although I was drinking, I remember thinking he was cute, I remember giving him my number and I remember he asked me what my plans were for the next day. I felt like I was on my game but something stopped me from really going in and sealing the deal. I thought about this for a few days and I realized; I’m getting desperate. He was forty years old and I think he said something that made me think he was poor otherwise I’m sure I would’ve been all over … CONTINUE READING…

Last Friday on the Oprah Show, she introduced her audience to two 30 year old virgins. The common consensus of the show was although there is nothing wrong with waiting until marriage to have sex, there is something wrong with wanting to have sex and not having any. The brave women on the show, willing to share their stories were suffering from what many poor daters (not just virgins) have to deal with. TheDatingTruth is: Whatever your current situation is: it sucks. It’s not your choice but it is your fault.

That’s the advice of famed sex expert Dr. … CONTINUE READING…