The Dating Truth

“Strangers are friends you have yet to meet”

It isn’t too often that I get a chance to really practice what I preach. I consider myself so Jillian Michaels.

Yes, I used to have trouble dating and I know what it takes to be successful but I don’t feel it necessary to do all the menial tasks a beginner would have to do to support my success.

I did meet a guy however and it got me thinking about how many women this happens to. You meet a guy that you like… what happens next is a combination of faith, … CONTINUE READING…

Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition – Timothy Leary

When was the last time you paid for a date?

This week I was reading one of my favorite dating advice blogs, www.evanmarckatz.com. He listed an interesting mix of articles and websites that had caught his attention, the #2 most visited being a link to poll results done by LearnVest about who should pick up the check on a date.

Ultimately the popular answer was the man or (in the case of same-sex relationships) whoever asks.

My reaction was, “Are we still talking about this?” If … CONTINUE READING…

Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. That’s relativity.

– Albert Einstein

On a scale from 1-10 how great was your last first date?

It blows my mind that some women don’t get calls back after the first date. I don’t want to say that men are easy to please but men are easy to please. As you should already know, the goal of the first date is to get a second date. Obvs, if he’s not … CONTINUE READING…

Have you ever asked yourself, “Do they like me?” or “Will I see them again?” after a first date?

Assuming that you were slightly interested in the romantic possibilities with this person when you planned the date, afterwards you might have many questions running through your mind. Doubts really; about how they felt about you and the date overall.

These feelings are completely naturally but absolutely detrimental to first date success. What single men and women don’t seem to know or realize is: The point of a first date is to get a second date.

Matchmaker, author and relationship … CONTINUE READING…

I don’t have a lot of sex. Never has it ever been a dilemma in my life whether or not to have sex on the first date. In my mind, if you have sex with a stranger the very first time that you go out, it’s likely to be your last date. Of course there are exceptions to the rule and we all have that one girl’s cousins, sister’s, neighbors, uncles, and nanny’s best friend who had sex on the first date and ended up happily married. Exceptions to the rule exist but be real, they don’t apply to most … CONTINUE READING…