The Dating Truth

Are you only as good, as the person you’re dating?

I read a tweet that said: #Ladies, you’re only as good as the man you date, if you let a lame in your panties then you’re lame.

It made me wonder, who judges what is lame or not? If this is how you view dating it’s no wonder you’re unhappily single.

Whether you call it lanes, numbers or calibers singles are obsessed with finding themselves in someone else. When it comes to degrees, status, looks and intelligence we are desperate to find a partner that we think is as good, … CONTINUE READING…

What matters the most in your life?

In the wake of 9/11 when nothing matters more than togetherness, it’s a question you should ask yourself when you think about your love life. I spent the last decade making love the most important thing in my life. Because of my perspective, I wasn’t sure that I was lovable. I know it sounds crazy but you think about what kind of love you’re offered in life. You don’t really get a say about what kind of love you’re offered, I learned that the hard way.

In memory of 9/11 its important to … CONTINUE READING…

I don’t know about you but I would love to be in a healthy, uplifting, supportive relationship with someone other than myself.

We’re living in a Me generation, so it should come as no surprise when I tell you that YOU are the love of your life. If that doesn’t put a smile on your face, or you don’t feel satisfied possibly spending the rest of your life with yourself it’s time to reevaluate who you are.

Don’t be afraid to find yourself and do anything it takes to hold onto that person (you).

I hate to sell … CONTINUE READING…

Why do some many relationships fail?

I am constantly reading relationship books. Although many of them are geared toward couples, being in a relationship or finding commitment, I think some of the concepts can easily be applied to casual dating.

In ‘Getting The Love That You Want,’ by Harville Hendrix Ph.D., he describes his formula for a successful marriage. One of the concepts resonated heavily with me, when it comes to dating and that is the idea of the “power struggle”.

Power struggles in relationships basically occur when we decide to deny our partner of the things that … CONTINUE READING…

It’s hard to believe that single men and women would leave the freedom of being single for commitment but it’s true.

When I think of single men and women wanting commitment, the scene from the Titanic comes to mind, where everyone just starts jumping overboard in a panic. Sometimes the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t. Ending their lives seemed more pleasant than waiting for death to come a knockin’.

Maybe it’s a dramatic comparison but I know a lot about dating, being single and the freedom it comes with. Yet, more singles than not, want … CONTINUE READING…