The Dating Truth

This year I’m dedicated to finding a happy, healthy, meaningful romantic relationship. Why, you might ask because this is The Dating Truth? We should all be singling and mingling forever right?

While I enjoy the freedom that comes with dating successfully, after having done it for so long, I’ve stopped growing. I haven’t stopped learning things about myself but I am stunted in my ability to improve in the areas I am flawed because I lack a partner to heal my emotional wounds.

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I realize most singles can’t … CONTINUE READING…

I make resolutions every year.

While some people think change should occur all year-long or it’s useless to make a promise to yourself, most people can’t keep, I look at resolutions as my longest term goals for self-improvement. I tend to use my resolutions for the New Year to aid in my personal growth.

Throughout the year I set goals for my career, my finances, things I want to buy or accumulate in life but New Years is the time I set goals for who I want to be as a person.

Ask yourself now, what kind of partner do you

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When people tell me dating is easy for me, referring to my looks, I always laugh and say it’s even harder because I’ve dated everybody.

I feel like I have dated everyone. From athletes, lawyers, doctors, salesmen, unemployed, engineers, Americans, Russians, Africans and the list goes on.

I’ve never found it difficult to get a date but what I’ve found over the years that I’ve been writing about dating, is that most people don’t care about the date.

For most people, the destination is far more important than the journey and they would rather get to paradise and have a lousy time than to be

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What do you need to be happy?

Not just in dating but in life period? Think about it, I’ll wait.

One of my favorite writers, Penelope Trunk, spent years of her life trying to figure out what made people happy. Money, time, accomplishments…? (Read about it here..)

It’s estimated it takes 40,000 a year to make the average person happy but its all just speculation, estimation and statistics.

(Don’t believe me, read this.)

What does that really mean to you or me?

In the years I’ve spent observing the way single men and women date, I’ve learned … CONTINUE READING…

Do you know a beautiful, intelligent, kind-hearted woman who just can’t seem to find a good man?

Forget that, a great man? Maybe you are that person.

So what I’m about to share with you is a foolproof way to get a man. Now I don’t want to give off the impression that I don’t champion for singles. Because I do. I think being single is awesome. I’m not sure why anyone would willingly leave their single life behind.

It has come to my attention however, that many women haven’t mastered the single and loving it lifestyle. There are many … CONTINUE READING…