The Dating Truth

I dated a guy a long time ago that was ridiculously money conscious. Even when he wasn’t paying, all he could think about was the bill, the tip, the cost in total and it was extremely frustrating.

Finally I asked my father for advice about what I to do in my situation and my dad, simply said, “It’s not about how much the food costs, it only matters what you feel like eating.”

You have to decide now what you want.

No, it’s not new advice but up until now I think you’ve focused only on what you don’t want.

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“You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.” – Unknown

Whether or not it shows, I am constantly working on improving my talents as a writer, so I read a lot of blogs about blogging.

There are so many elements of the industry that I definitely need to work on. I find myself, when I’m not writing, reading about how to write/blog better. One key piece of advice, I recently read on blogtyrant.com is that the key to getting … CONTINUE READING…

This year I’m dedicated to finding a happy, healthy, meaningful romantic relationship. Why, you might ask because this is The Dating Truth? We should all be singling and mingling forever right?

While I enjoy the freedom that comes with dating successfully, after having done it for so long, I’ve stopped growing. I haven’t stopped learning things about myself but I am stunted in my ability to improve in the areas I am flawed because I lack a partner to heal my emotional wounds.

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I make resolutions every year.

While some people think change should occur all year-long or it’s useless to make a promise to yourself, most people can’t keep, I look at resolutions as my longest term goals for self-improvement. I tend to use my resolutions for the New Year to aid in my personal growth.

Throughout the year I set goals for my career, my finances, things I want to buy or accumulate in life but New Years is the time I set goals for who I want to be as a person.

Ask yourself now, what kind of partner do you

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When people tell me dating is easy for me, referring to my looks, I always laugh and say it’s even harder because I’ve dated everybody.

I feel like I have dated everyone. From athletes, lawyers, doctors, salesmen, unemployed, engineers, Americans, Russians, Africans and the list goes on.

I’ve never found it difficult to get a date but what I’ve found over the years that I’ve been writing about dating, is that most people don’t care about the date.

For most people, the destination is far more important than the journey and they would rather get to paradise and have a lousy time than to be

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