7 Signs You’re Ready for A Relationship

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The right relationship will find you, once you create the right circumstances to invite it into your life.

Whether you believe this or not, the alternative isn’t very helpful. Like most single people you’re probably blocking the very thing that you say you want, when it comes to dating. You’re probably afraid. A healthy relationship is out of your comfort zone for the mere fact that you’ve probably never had one.

If you haven’t had healthy relationships in the past then attracting one might seem difficult but there’s a way! Even that elusive relationship that you’ve been dreaming about your entire life is possible once you’re ready to have it.

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Will A Former Cheater Also Cheat On You?

What To Do When You Discover You’re Dating Someone With An Adulterous Past

When someone you’re dating tells you they’ve cheated on a former love you get the sinking feeling that you could find yourself a victim of their infidelity as well. Can former cheaters be reformed? In this post, by Janis Boswell, she’ll share her advice for dealing with a past cheater.

 What To Do When You Discover You’re Dating Someone With An Adulterous Past?

In a relationship, both parties bring their own set of baggage because let’s face it, no one has an immaculate dating past. But when you discover that your partner has a history of cheating, whether it’s just one time or multiple times, it’s definitely a tough pill to swallow.

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3 Foolproof Ways To Get Into A Relationship


Being single is a direct result of how much you know about getting into a relationship.

Single men and women make the assumption that they are single because they haven’t met the right person but that’s not the entire truth.

Most likely you’re single because you don’t know how not to be. You don’t know how to get into a relationship.
The way we think about relationships is skewed. We attribute finding love to luck but it isn’t.

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Want More Dates… There’s An App For That

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Nothing would make me happier than if you got out there and started dating.

If you’ve been frustrated about where to meet potential dates let me suggest modern technology: dating apps.

Many singles don’t like online dating and you may be one of them, I get it. As a dating expert I work closely with singles to craft an online story that attracts their ideal partner.

Not everyone has the luxury of me as a coach so it’s no surprise that you may not realize it’s your profile that’s holding you back from success.

A killer profile can make the difference when it comes to meeting high quality dates online. What’s exciting about dating apps and online dating, more so than traditional dating, is that you have more control of your presentation. There are no bad hair days when it comes to online dating.

You control your pictures, bio and who you like. What’s improved over traditional online dating is that the moment two people like each other a match is made and you can instantly start chatting. With meeting new people as easy as it’s ever been, why do so many singles struggle to get results?

Their Profile

Online dating and dating apps are not a last resort. There is no reason to look any worse in a picture than you do online. With a hyper-focus on appearance it’s even more important that you choose photos for your profile that make you look hot.

It’s when choosing photos singles are faced with the realization that they don’t feel so good looking. In person you can’t see your own face. It’s easy to pretend that you have the confidence of a 7 when you really feel like a 4.

With online dating you can’t hide from your own appearance. Its apparent in many photos how people feel about themselves because some users fail to choose flattering photos.

Your photos are your calling card, so make them attractive. Only add pictures that make you seem attractive and interesting. Blurry photos, extreme close-ups, group photos and bad selfies ruin the experience for the viewer. Take a look at the photos from profiles you like and you’ll notice that the pictures are clear and in focus.

You’ll notice that the person is typically smiling and engaging in an activity that they love. If you don’t highlight photos that show your best side you’ll come across as not serious. Ask a friend to take new photos to make sure that you look your best.

Your bio isn’t as important as your photo but a captivating bio can only enhance your profile. Create a bio that is compelling and well crafted. Use your bio to answer the question: What are you looking for. If it speaks to a potential date then they will swipe right on your profile.

Looks aside, it’s your entire presentation that draws people to you.
Treat your profile as you would if you were approaching someone in real life. If you wouldn’t say it in person then don’t post it online. Remember to keep updating your profile if you’re not making any connections. If you’re profile isn’t attracting the right people, update it.

Their Process

They way you choose who to swipe right on can make a huge to your dating success. Unlike traditional online dating, modern apps like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge alert you the moment you have a mutual match and allow you to get the conversation started. When deciding what profile to like there are only two critical questions you should answer: Are they my type and am I theirs?

The goal isn’t to find your soul mate; the goal is to make matches. If you lose sight of this goal at any point in time then you aren’t using dating apps properly. You should only qualify profiles on these two questions.

Don’t bypass anyone who would seemingly swipe right on you because the more matches mean more options. (This is a theory I’ve tested and believe to be true.)

Most dating apps weed out the undesirables by their low number of matches. The fewer matches you have the fewer profiles you’ll be shown. To increase your odds of finding new dates it’s smart to be less critical when swiping. I hope this was helpful.

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Not sure what to do once you’ve made a match? Purchase my latest guide: After The Swipe. I share with you best practices for modern dating apps and 50 opening lines that work to get meeting online and dating off.

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