The Dating Truth

You need more dates, more people to like you and better luck approaching potential dates than you’re having now. Am I right?

The [Dating] Truth is, if someone decides that they don’t want to date you before they get to know you, that’s a problem.

The idea of dating is to get to know another person, to decide if a relationship or even a friendship is possible. If you find yourself out of the race before you even start running, you have failed at the basics of what dating is. When I hear stories of women who are still giving … CONTINUE READING…

There are many experts that will always tell you what not to do in dating.

From their point of view it makes sense. Every situation is different and if someone were to tell you, step by step, what to do in dating, it might not apply to your situation. The information might not be useful or effective and this expert might lose their credibility.

Well, I’m going to break the rules and tell you the [dating] truth. Why because think of it like changing a tire, or learning to drive. Every car is different but once you know the basics … CONTINUE READING…

There are some people who can talk to anyone: I’m not that person.

While I do get along with most people I have struggled with actually holding a conversation about topics I just don’t give a f*ck about.

A huge turn off to most singles is when someone who you think you might like is sucking the fun out of the conversation. While you would like to know more about them, they’re rambling on about work, or some asinine subject that you know little about and could care even less.

It’s possible that the person you’re interested in is only … CONTINUE READING…

Imagine you’re shopping at a clothing store or a grocery store and behind the counter is a very attractive woman. You smile, you think that you’re flirting and you know you’re attracted to her.

she’s already flirting with you, ask for her number

She’s smiling too and being extra friendly, you consider starting a conversation but you have no idea what to say. All you can manage is to sign the pinpad and be on your way purchases in hand.

Has this scenario ever happened to you?

Have you ever in been in prime position to make a move on a potential date but you did nothing?

I once stumbled onto the good fortune of finding myself in the midst of the defensive line of a professional football team. (with no groupies in sight) As I wanted to mix and mingle, my girlfriend decided she would rather go back to our seats, way at the other side of the room. I was shocked! I was appalled! I was sipping on my free martini courtesy of the middle linebacker and this dumb b*tch was mean mugging from a distant location. I knew then that if I wanted to attract the right men I needed to have … CONTINUE READING…