The Dating Truth

Although no one is good at everything dating isn’t a subject we think of people being bad at. Maybe you aren’t a good singer, a good dancer or good at math but dating, it’s like breathing, and it’s assumed we all know how to do it.

Years ago when the goal of dating was simply a matter of getting someone to want to marry you, sure it was easy to be good. You knew you had succeeded on your wedding day. Nowadays the convincing of others, into that marriage thing (and with who, you?) is a completely new challenge.

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There is nothing safe about sex. There never will be.
Norman Mailer

Over a few months of summer last year, I set out to find the answer to a simple question: How do you get a man to have casual sex with you, on a regular basis?

Real casual. Like don’t call me unless you have an hour to spare and condoms, casual.

The many men that I asked laughed; claiming it was easy for women to have sex with anyone, just ask. All a woman had to do was ask a man or tell him really, that she only … CONTINUE READING…

Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because they’re alive and human.
Albert Ellis

Maybe it’s just me but I will always think there are men who just aren’t good enough for me. In fact I’m sure many singles have thought the same of the opposite sex, which is why they are still single.

It’s really crazy how judgmental we can be but after a certain age you expect your hard work to pay off. So you’re trying to tell me I spent $500 bucks at Sephora … CONTINUE READING…

One of my proudest moments is I didn’t sell my soul for the sake of popularity.
George W. Bush

One of the amazing things about living in America in 2011 is the growth of the “me” culture. If you’re single and have ever watched a reality show, you should’ve by now realized that people are insanely selfish and self-centered.

I hear complaints from women that men aren’t marriage minded. Too many men want to play the field and dating is so much more difficult because singles are thinking of themselves and they don’t want to settle down.

Men just want … CONTINUE READING…

“Dressing for success is something unsuccessful women do” Geoffrey Beene

Are looks really that important in dating? In a word, yes.

The reason how we look is so important, not just in finding love but several aspects of our lives, is because the marketing giants of the western world increasingly whet our appetites for beauty.

Whether it’s a new car design, a sleek new phone or a cleanly designed watch (not to mention the gorgeous models and actors companies hire) you can’t deny that beautiful things sell.

If you fail to meet the criteria of ‘beauty’ being well dressed, having … CONTINUE READING…