The Dating Truth

I don’t blog for regular people.

There are several dating “experts” and relationship writers who champion for the everyday Joe and Jane just trying to make it through this thing we call life and the dating world.

Kudos, to whomever wants that cookie cutter love life, marriage, a house and 2.5 kids. And I can’t forget the dog.

Chances are if you’re reading this blog or are a fan of my work you want more from your love life than just the status quo, you want to run that sh*t.

You’re awesome and simply waiting for the rest of the … CONTINUE READING…

Looks don’t matter in dating.

Any good-looking person will tell you that.

You can see for yourself by assessing the couples around you. Some great looking people, you might be one of them, are single and some less appealing people that you know, are boo’d up.

The elements that matter in dating are attraction, chemistry and interest.

Your job if you’re single is to create these feelings within potential dates. You should build attraction, develop chemistry and produce interest. The person you’re dating, meeting for the first time or pining after from afar will only give you the time of … CONTINUE READING…

Contentment. 

Noun:  A state of happiness and satisfaction.

This simple noun can be the difference between getting dates and not getting dates. When we face rejection as singles, it’s because the person we are interested in is NOT interested in giving us what they think we want.

That simple.

I am constantly being asked out on dates, and I don’t go because I don’t want to give men that I’m not interested in any hopes that they’ll get anything from me.

Working in sales, I was often irritated by customers who immediately said, “I’m just browsing,” when asked “how are … CONTINUE READING…

Although no one is good at everything dating isn’t a subject we think of people being bad at. Maybe you aren’t a good singer, a good dancer or good at math but dating, it’s like breathing, and it’s assumed we all know how to do it.

Years ago when the goal of dating was simply a matter of getting someone to want to marry you, sure it was easy to be good. You knew you had succeeded on your wedding day. Nowadays the convincing of others, into that marriage thing (and with who, you?) is a completely new challenge.

Believe … CONTINUE READING…

There is nothing safe about sex. There never will be.
Norman Mailer

Over a few months of summer last year, I set out to find the answer to a simple question: How do you get a man to have casual sex with you, on a regular basis?

Real casual. Like don’t call me unless you have an hour to spare and condoms, casual.

The many men that I asked laughed; claiming it was easy for women to have sex with anyone, just ask. All a woman had to do was ask a man or tell him really, that she only … CONTINUE READING…