If you can’t get a date or you can’t find a man, I hate to break it to you but all the rumors you’ve heard about there being a man shortage are lies ALL LIES.
There is no such thing as man shortage!!
We hear over and over the studies that claim that there are more men than women, men in jail, gay men, married men until slowly but surely the number of eligible bachelors (once you take out the shorties, the brokies and the fatties) are so slim, you’re considering becoming try-sexual.
You’ll try anything sexual.
Today, the only way to combat some of the challenges of meeting Mr. Right is to understand what is holding you back from finding him in the first place. Lets face facts: lots of people play the lottery and only a few win.
You want to be a winner don’t you?
It’s no different in dating. Sure there are married people, but there are divorced people. Yes some men cheat, and unfortunately people die. Just because you find a man and take yourself out of the dating pool does not mean that you’ll be happy or out of the dating game for good.
Part of the idea of dating being a numbers game that I find flawed is that once you do find a good man there is no guarantee that it will last. Once you get back into the dating world blaming the numbers isn’t going to help you. Especially since now there will be one less man to choose from.
There are enough men on earth for the women who want them. The only thing holding any woman back from finding the right man is having the right attitude. The same could be said about wealth, there is plenty of money but we all aren’t rich!
It’s important to learn what attracts men. The ability to attract quality men over and over allows you to have quantity on your side. That way when one relationship doesn’t work out, you can move right along and attract someone else.
Also, why date with the fear that good men are hard to come by? Good men are easy to come by but attracting them may be harder for some women than for others.
To make sure that the men you meet always find you attractive, interesting and a possible potential partner, you must embrace one important key to dating: it’s all about attraction.
It’s unlikely a man will want to date you if he isn’t attracted to you. (Luckily for men, women don’t have such strict restrictions.) Men aren’t as understanding as women and if you don’t turn them on, they won’t take you out.
Your goal is to find a way to appeal to men and the more the better.