How To Succeed With Women If You’re A Short Man
I don’t care for short men (not as people just as potential dates). I’m 5’4 and if you’re my height or slightly taller, I automatically lose all respect for you. I have dated several men south of 5’9 and it never ended well. Not because they weren’t nice men but in every relationship there is a dominant and subordinate. Women naturally assume a subordinate rule due to the fact that once we get pregnant we’re instantly weakened by the parasite baby sharing our blood supply and nutrients.
In the past, shorter men that I’d dated could never quite convince me to follow instead of lead. As a natural born HBIC subordination doesn’t come easy. I’m not saying that short men have problems asserting themselves but just as strong women are often called b*tches, dominant short men are seen as having a Napoleon complex and eager to yield their authority in a “not so nice” way. When shorter men try too hard to earn respect they are seen as bitter and angry. Of course I am generalizing but I see it often in men of shorter stature so read hear me out.
Many short men can tell you their dating woes of having women snub them for not being tall enough. Dating is full of discrimination, so there’s no need to pretend that just because it’s not nice, it doesn’t happen. I’m not the only woman who has ever rebuffed a man for being horizontally challenged. So how can short men be seen as dominant figures without seeming like Ari Gold?
Get that chip off your shoulder. From a black woman to a short man, you have can sometimes come across as bitter and angry. Maybe you feel ten feet tall but you’re not. Quit acting like women should treat you as they should any other man and that height doesn’t matter. It does matter. You just happened to get the short end of the stick, pun intended. Your best bet is to act cheerful, channel Michael J Fox and brush off the fact that maybe women have been less than friendly to you in the past. If your height bothers you, it will bother other people. If you act like it isn’t an issue, it won’t be.
Gain power and have lots of money. Trust me ugly people do it all of the time and it works. I’ve dated short men, who were CEOs and company presidents, hell most running backs in the NFL are under 5’9. Intelligence isn’t measured in height and it doesn’t take talent to hustle. When it comes to being successful and powerful there are no height requirements. Having command and the respect of others will attract women. Pretty, shiny things will attract women. Flashy cars, watches and an American Express card will attract women. Do you see where I’m going with this? The least a short man can do is drive a BMW.
(I feel the need to amend this paragraph by stating, women like men with money. Being broke and tall does not make you a catch. If you’re a kind, intelligent man who happens to be under average height, money will help in attracting women.)
Dress well and keep fit. All you need to look good these days is effort. It takes no money to do calisthenics in your living room. It cost no money to watch what you eat and be slim. It cost pennies to exfoliate and have great skin and if you’re within an 8 mile radius of a Marshalls or TJ Maxx you can still dress fresh to death on a budget. If you’re short and you decide to be pudgy, with a gut that is your problem.
No one should be angry about the response they get from potential dates. We all teach people how to treat us. Women are looking for men who are assertive, decisive, protective and caring. If you want to gain respect and have success with women, you have to have the confidence not to care about your shortcomings, pun intended.