The Dating Truth

This year I’m dedicated to finding a happy, healthy, meaningful romantic relationship. Why, you might ask because this is The Dating Truth? We should all be singling and mingling forever right?

While I enjoy the freedom that comes with dating successfully, after having done it for so long, I’ve stopped growing. I haven’t stopped learning things about myself but I am stunted in my ability to improve in the areas I am flawed because I lack a partner to heal my emotional wounds.

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I realize most singles can’t … CONTINUE READING…

Most single people never stop to ask themselves, if they’re a good dater. I wrote a post about the type of man every woman wants and I encourage men to look through the traits and ask, “Is that me?”

I share this information with men because that’s who I date. Although I’ve been extremely lucky in dating, having met lots of wonderful men, I haven’t been successful in love.

It’s been difficult for me to find a man interested in me that embodied the characteristics that I needed.

If you read enough self-help books on dating, there comes a point … CONTINUE READING…

In the dating world, men and women are always trying to figure out what the other one wants. It seems like we have no idea but the [dating] truth is men and women want the same thing. Clutch the pearls!

I know it’s a crazy concept but can you imagine that in all fairness, this is true. When it comes to love, what is good for the goose is truly good for the gander. And before you laugh at my old school saying it was once an Eden’s Crush song so there, Google that!

But seriously, the mystery of what … CONTINUE READING…

Whether you agree with my advice or not I write with one policy, give the advice you would want to hear. It stems from the idea, be the change you want to see.

I’m single and have been for years. I have been through numerous situations and I longed for a specific type of advice that I thought the self-help/ relationship advice industry was missing and I set out to fill that void.

The truth is, I still need advice. I certainly don’t know it all and I fall victim to the same traps every other single woman finds herself … CONTINUE READING…

Life is a mirror. Imagine that concept. Envision it in a literal sense. Staring at yourself, into your eyes, you reflect one expression. When you smile, the mirror smiles. When you frown so does the face in mirror. Imagine this concept was real life. In many ways it is.

Numerous other sayings reflect the same sentiment. You give what you get, you reap what you sow and what goes around comes back around.

I read the idea life is a mirror in the book, ‘The 11 Laws of Likability’ by Michelle Lederman.

The moment it struck, this theory stayed with … CONTINUE READING…